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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2014 18:02:32 GMT -5
Two years until I'm an adult. And maybe you should grow up and stop judging people. No wonder why Kruze is always getting pissed off at you.....
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Post by The Sandmen on Mar 26, 2014 18:27:53 GMT -5
I judge you on what you can control. You can choose to not have temper tantrums and throw hockey sticks at refs.
I believe Kruze would say, "Rise above".
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Post by The West Coast Knockouts on Mar 26, 2014 19:50:30 GMT -5
I judge you on what you can control. You can choose to not have temper tantrums and throw hockey sticks at refs. I believe Kruze would say, "Rise above". I'll be honest Bulldozers reminds me a lot about myself when I was his age . I first came into sim sites at the age of 15 lol remember the religion debates we had on ManNHL VIP edition when I was the Miami Red Hawks? I was arrogant and indoctrinated but had no idea then and had this me against the world attitude when it's actually not even close to being that in reality . He'll grow out of it like I did but my generation ( 90's kids) start off all like this when we enter our teens. I hate to see what the upcoming generations will be like .
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Post by The Sandmen on Mar 26, 2014 21:42:15 GMT -5
I totally forgot about those! I am on ManNHL VIP now, re-reading it. Archives are awesome!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2014 21:56:36 GMT -5
Send me a link. I wanna see this old site.
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Post by The Rocketmen on Mar 26, 2014 22:00:54 GMT -5
I like how we're the assholes because he did stupid things.
It's not a judgment as much as it's sort of advice.
You'll find that the things you believed when you were 14 won't be the same at 18, and from there to 21 even won't be the same, etc. etc.
You will always change. And change is good. It means you're accepting new information to create new opinions on things. This comes with education, and staying current in news and information. Your brain has its most growth in knowledge acceptance at very early ages, but again from 18 to 21, after that you're recycling information and using up parts of your brain that used to be used for things you no longer need or haven't used.
So it's really not us being dicks and "no wonder Kruze hates us" or whatever, fact is there are some things I get along great with Kruze, and other things that were are at constant odds. Patience has run out on both sides between he and I and I can respect that, though it can be annoying for the site to see us lose our shit over tiny things on each other. It's just been a growing frustration between us, and neither of us care to fix it, and so be it.
As for the dumb things you did in hockey, you did them, they were dumb, own your shit. Don't get upset when you say something shitty about yourself and someone says "that was shitty of you" and then somehow that person is an asshole for calling you out on your shit. Own it.
There's nothing wrong with apologizing, and it's always good to stand up for yourself. But you need to pick what you're standing up for. 15 year old you might agree, but 21 year old you might think you're a jackass.
I know for a fact that even looking at relationships, 27 year old me thinks the 17 year-old-and-ready-to-get-married me was a fucking dolt. What as I thinking?
I've also on several occasions in the last five years contacted people I've known who I've done shitty things to and apologized to them. 95% of the time they had no clue what I was talking about because it affected me more than it did them, but I'm still happy I did it. It settled things for me, and I owned my shit.
Try it sometime, it feels good.
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Post by The Sandmen on Mar 26, 2014 22:10:37 GMT -5
I've also on several occasions in the last five years contacted people I've known who I've done shitty things to and apologized to them. 95% of the time they had no clue what I was talking about because it affected me more than it did them, but I'm still happy I did it. It settled things for me, and I owned my shit. I totally did that too. Same thing, most barely remembered it, if anything, but as you said - owning up to what you have done, accepting responsibility for it, and trying to make amends for it. It's very cathartic. And right. Send me a link. I wanna see this old site. vipsim.proboards.com It has been upgraded to Proboards 5, so the aesthetic is destroyed, but that's the shell of the site.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2014 22:19:43 GMT -5
I'm 16 you jackass
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Post by The Rocketmen on Mar 26, 2014 22:34:49 GMT -5
You're actually the owner of missedthepoint.com
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2014 23:10:50 GMT -5
That actually is a website lol
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Post by The Sandmen on Mar 27, 2014 2:57:09 GMT -5
Pretty much every .com is a website now.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 27, 2014 6:56:50 GMT -5
Not fuckthesandmen.com
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Post by The Rocketmen on Mar 27, 2014 8:22:29 GMT -5
Because you thought it, it will exist soon
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Post by Deleted on Mar 27, 2014 13:34:00 GMT -5
I'll be waiting.........
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Post by The Sandmen on Mar 27, 2014 14:56:47 GMT -5
I bet there's a bot somewhere (either in existence or in development) that tracks what unregistered .coms, .cas etc exist and what ones are getting hits then alerts someone so they will buy them.
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